Friday, June 28, 2024

It Ain't Like Cleaning Windows

  


All my life, my occupations have consisted of blue-collar jobs, most of which were outdoors, so, embedded in my psyche, when I think of work, I think of toiling with my hands, dirty, sweaty and strenuous.

 

But now I'm making the transition from the outdoor labor I'm familiar with to the mostly indoor work associated with Bob Doll Studios, and all it entails. It is a bit of a challenge. Actually, it's a considerable challenge. It’s a paradigm shift, 


a complete change of mindset.

 

My work no longer appears as a daily series of physical labors of the body but as a catalogue of mental tasks. This is a whole new world for me and one to which I'm unaccustomed.

 

Gone are the mornings when I would pray for the inspiration needed to venture into the gleaning fields and endeavor all day in the hot sun or the cold, stinging wind.


 It's a world I found predictable and controllable even though unpleasant. 


Now I seek wisdom to toil not in the fields but at a home studio, climate-controlled and safe, trying to answer the true calling in my life, one I should have answered many years ago. It may not be as predictable to me, not yet, but neither were the initial treks into the promised land. 

 

As they say, “be careful what you pray for. You might get it.”

 

Instead of writing estimates, I’m writing proposals. Instead of climbing a ladder, I’m counting pages. Instead of checking the forecast for rain, I’m closing the window blinds to prevent a glare on my computer screen. Instead of applying sunscreen, I'm turning away from the window so I won’t be distracted. Instead of drenching my head in cool water, I’m having another a cup of coffee.

 

It’s a different world, indeed.

 

When cleaning windows, I could track the progress I was making by counting the number of windows I cleaned, and I could also see with my eyes how much I still had left and I knew how long it would take me to complete. I also knew exactly the compensation I would receive at the end of the job.

 

I had a good reputation so finding new and repeat customers was fairly easy but now it’s as if I’m starting all over again.

 

It will take some time and adjustments to complete my success as a cartoonist, writer and instructor 


but succeed I will.

 

“…we should not be like cringing, fearful slaves, but we should behave like God’s very own children, adopted into the bosom of his very own family…” Romans 8:15

 





Tuesday, June 18, 2024

REPENT!

 

Good question…why do I want to be healthier? Why do I want to get better at what I do? Why do I want to be more prosperous? Is it so I can be slightly healthier and live longer with the version of who I am now? Is it so I can do the same things that I’m doing now only a little better at it? Is it so I can be the same as I am now only with a little more money?


Throughout history, when one decides enough is enough and determines to change the path he or she is on, it is without fail, accompanied by a complete change of mindset; 100% of the time. A person who resolves to lose 100 pounds, changes her mind, and adopts a completely different lifestyle as her approach to food and nutrition changes. Her attitude about exercise differs. Her determination strengthens.

One who is fed up with his financial struggles, career, lifestyle or bad relationships, and wants things to change then he changes his mind. It’s accompanied by a drastic change of mental attitude because the fact is, it is the mind that controls it all.  

It's all in your head.

Have you ever heard someone say about someone else, “he’s not ready to change”? This is when a person’s motivation to stay the same is greater than his desire to change like the old hound dog who’d rather sit on a nail, in agony, because he’s too lazy to move to another section of the porch.

Click below to watch the video about the hound dog sitting on a nail

                           The Hound Dog

If I want to get out of debt but still maintain my current work ethics, the same attitude about money, and keep the same learned helplessness, then a year from now I am likely to be in the same position, or worse.

The decision to work harder and smarter, to invest my money, to lose weight, to be a better husband, to be a better servant or to improve my skills begins and ends in my mind. Sometimes the thought of a dismal future is enough but then I must believe the change will be.

Fear pushes us but hope pulls us.

So, it’s a law just like in physics. “An object in motion tends to stay in motion unless acted upon by an outside force”. To change my life, I must change your mind.

Tuesday, June 11, 2024

Lost

 



Do you believe a person is where he/she is because that’s where that person wants to be? This is a general belief among many because whether you agree with it or not, a person is the sum of his/her choices. 

But consider this...

A few years ago, my mother moved to the Texas Hill country and the first time I went to see her in that part of the country, being neither familiar with the territory nor having a map, (this was before the days of Google maps) I couldn’t find her house. Being thoroughly lost, I went into a local gas station and asked the attendant if he knew how to get to Boerne, Texas and he was happy to oblige. I got back into the car setting out with confidence knowing, this time, I would get to Boerne.

Fifteen minutes later, after following his instructions, I was further away from my desired destination than I was before I asked him. I was traveling down a dark, isolated, two-lane highway at night and I had visions of The Texas Chainsaw Massacre flashing through my mind. I was in a place I didn’t want to be not because I wanted to be there, but rather, 

I was given the wrong directions...

There is another story about a salesman who was assigned by his territory manager to attend a seminar in Dallas at the convention center where the event was being held. His boss gave him handwritten directions on how to get from Houston to Dallas and how to find the arena once he was in the city. The salesman followed the directions explicitly, but he could not find the convention center.

He called his boss back home to tell inform of the situation and he was told...

 "You're not working hard enough"

So the salesman really concentrated, drove faster and with more determination. Still, he couldn’t find the Dallas Convention Center. Again, he called his boss in Houston to apprise him of the situation. “You need to quit being so negative”, he was told. 

"Think more positive and you can find it..."

So, the salesman began saying to himself “Be positive. I’m a positive person. I’m thinking positive.” But still, as hard as he worked and as positive as thought he could not find it.

Being thoroughly frustrated with the situation, he finally decided to pull into a convenience store to ask for directions to the Dallas Convention Center and handing the helpful young man his handwritten map the clerk said, “No wonder you can’t find the Dallas Convention Center. This is a map of Fort Worth!”. The salesman’s boss had given him the wrong directions.

Is the map we’re following the right map? Are the guidelines we’ve been given leading us in the wrong direction? Are we listening to the wrong voices? If so, maybe we’re where we are not because we want to be there, but because we’ve been given the wrong instructions.

Maybe some of us been programmed by a belief system, a mindset or circumstances from an early age that may have worked for some who are content with their lot but not for everyone who wants something different than what we've been given, with different objectives, different tendencies, a different purpose, different interests and talents.

 

Monday, June 3, 2024

How Jack Did It....

 


Jack London was a famous American author who wrote such novels as The Call of the Wild, White Fang and The Sea Wolf, and many short stories like, To Build a Fire, An Odyssey of the North and A Far Country. He often drew upon his own adventurous experiences in developing plots and characters. He was a forerunner of the great Ernest Hemingway and his stories often depicted man’s struggle against a cruel and unforgiving natural environment and the savageness of his fellow humans.

But how did London become so successful at writing and---

How did he know what he wanted to do?

As a boy, London was raised by his mother and his stepfather who adopted him after his own natural father rejected him by denying that he was his son. In San Francisco, Jack dropped out of high school to work in a cannery but soon left that dead-end employment to try his hand as an oyster poacher. He then worked as a member of the fisheries enforcement, a sailor, and a seal hunter in the Bearing Sea, which he described as a gruesome occupation.

In 1898, he was 21 and decided to join his brother-in-law on a trip to Alaska to join him on the Klondike gold rush, where, Instead of finding his fortune, he found the trip was a disaster and London claimed to have discovered only $4.50 in gold dust. He was trapped in an Alaskan cabin, while outside, in London’s own words---

 “Winter froze everything to icey stillness”.

“Nothing stirred” he wrote,

“The Yukon slept under a coat of ice three feet thick”

 A diet of bacon, beans and bread had given him scurvy. His gums bled, his teeth were loose, and his joints ached. London decided that if he were to live, he would no longer try to rise above poverty through physical labor. Instead, he would become a writer. So, he carved into the table the words 


Jack was determined to become a successful writer, but the odds were stacked against him. Not only was he poor but he had no literary background and no literary connections but within 5 years he became one of the most successful writers in American Literature and his stories today are still regarded as some of the most brilliant. He was such a triumph at writing that by 1907 he was making the equivalent in today’s money of $250,000 a month.

He went from a poor, dejected, unskilled, laborer and in a relatively short time, became a prosperous writer. 

The question is, how did he do it?

The thing about the secret of success is that it’s no secret because every time someone is successful, they tell everyone how they did it. Jack London was no exception in this respect.

He granted interviews and wrote articles on how he started and how he became a writer. Here are some of his suggestions:

1.  Be Prolific

I knew positively nothing about it. I lived in California, far from the great publishing centers. I did not know what an editor looked like. I did not know a soul who had ever published anything; nor yet again, a soul, with the exception of my own, who had ever tried to write anything, much less tried to publish it. I had no one to give me tips, no one’s experience to profit by.”

 London’s solution was to write prolifically. And begin writing at different types of writing.

 I sat down and wrote in order to get an experience of my own. I wrote everything-short stories, articles, anecdotes, jokes, essays, sonnets, ballads, villanelles, triolets. Songs, light plays in iambic tetrameter, and heavy tragedies in blank verse. These various creations I stuck into envelopes, enclosed return postage, and dropped into the mail. Oh, I was prolific.”

 

2.  Don’t quit your day job

 London, like many beginners with stars in their eyes, thought he would make money quickly as a writer but soon found out the opposite was true. Initially, instead of paychecks, he received hundreds of rejection slips. Finally, he found someone who was willing to publish one of his short stories, but it was for the contemptibly small amount of $5.

 Finding his way in literature became so difficult that after a time, he even considered returning to shoveling coal but thank God for us, he didn’t. One day, shortly before giving up, a publisher offered him $40 for a short story. This was the beginning of his literary achievements.

 Out of this came his experience, and advise, that it’s easier to reach success if you’re not always worried about money. If one has money for financial support, it’s likely to mean that creators won’t give up on their objectives as easily.

 

3.   Stick to popular genres

"A good joke sells better than a good poem."

By this he meant if one were to stick to the popular genres then his work would sell better to a mass audience.

“Avoid unhappy endings, the harsh, the brutal, the tragic, the horrible.” 

This is ironic advice coming from London because he broke these rules in many of his stories. To Build a Fire is one example of a catastrophic ending for the protagonist. 

“In this connection, don’t do as I do, but do as I say.”


 4.  Don’t wait for inspiration

 “Don’t loaf and invite inspiration. Light out after it with a club, and if you don’t get it you will nonetheless get something remarkably like it. Set yourself a stint and do that stint each day. You will have more words to your credit at the end of the year.”

 If you set yourself a daily writing goal, whether it’s mountainous, like 5000 words, or smaller such as 500 words, and you follow through despite distractions, you will develop a good writing habit.

 

5.  Study the craft

AAnother way London learned to write was by poring over the works of great writers. 

“Study the tricks of the writers who have arrived. They have mastered the tools with which you are cutting your fingers. They are doing things, and their work bears the internal evidence of how it’s done. Don’t wait for some good Samaritan to tell you but dig it out for yourself.”

 The greatest writers give us a standard by which to compare our own work. Reading them is a road map to creating our own works of art.

 

6.  Stay healthy

 “See that your pores are open, and your digestion is good. That is, I am confident, the most important rule of all”.

 Writing is a sedentary job. Your brain is attached to your body. and you can’t do your best work if you’re weak or in ill health.

 

7.  Keep a writer’s notebook

 “Keep a notebook. Travel with it. Eat with it. Sleep with it. Slap into it every stray thought that flutters up into your brain. Cheap paper is less perishable than gray matter, and lead pencil markings endure longer than memory.”

 London wasn’t the only writer who kept a notebook. All great writers do the same to collect ideas and help get them out of creative ruts. Keeping a writer’s notebook is fundamental in creative writing courses. To be a prolific writer you must get used to the idea and the habit of writing down your thoughts in a notebook.

London’s suggestions on how to become a successful writer are easily transferred to whatever a person decides to be prosperous at doing. The above methods are the ones he put into practice to be able to write some of the most gripping and unforgettable stories in literature. The final words of the article are London’s own and probably the most important:

“Spell it out in capital letters. WORK. WORK all the time. Find out about this Earth, this universe…and by this I mean WORK for a philosophy of life…. The three great things are: GOOD HEALTH; WORK; and A PHILOSOPHY OF LIFE…. With it you may cleave to greatness and sit among the giants.”

 

Pygmalion

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